personalizing

#433 – Journey Of Attachment: Personalizing Keeps You Stuck in a Dysfunctional Relationship

Are you always reading into what your significant other is doing–or not doing? Every ignored text, every forwarded call becomes a sign of the way they feel about you. When you take every action personally, you are giving them authority over your emotional state.

To fight this helpless feeling, you may have turned to the silent treatment. Whether you’re ignoring them as a punishment or a way to make them miss you, it’s giving you a false sense of control. The key to a healthy relationship is not to ignore them, but to communicate openly about your feelings.

You have to stop focusing on what you think is about you and focus on what you can control–your own actions. In today’s episode, learn how to stop personalizing others and take control of your emotions.

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