When You’re Triggered In A Relationship

No matter how much work you’ve done on yourself, shit can still come up, especially if you’re in a relationship where you don’t know if you’re coming or going. Intimate relationships present all sorts of triggers—ones you thought you have already dealt with, ones you knew about but have avoided and brand spankin’ new ones

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Expectations the Relationship Killer

Expectations can be like insect repellant, sprayed at a moment’s notice without any forewarning. To be clear, I am not talking about expectations, such as: loving one another, loyalty, respect, or any of the basic ways we human beings get along in our relationships. I’m not just limiting this to “romantic relationships,” I’m talking about ALL relationships. I’m a recovering people

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