Nobody Wants Me

I received that statement in a text. It came from a man who I shared an on/off relationship with for 5 years. It’s not so much of what would provoke him to write that statement, but the lack of self-responsibility in having created the situation for himself…causing him to feel that way. It seems he believed this occurred through no fault of his

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Do we need to be punished first?

Often when I work with someone in my coaching practice, there comes a day where the question of punishment comes up…. The leftover, like moldy bread part of our childhood, in which we were a bad boy or a bad girl. Or something like that. It is fairly insidious, but we develop many actions and decisions from

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