#287- Journey of Attachment: Love is Not a Game of Chess

  #287- Journey of Attachment: Love is Not a Game of Chess When you don’t feel loveable, you may strategize to get what you aren’t giving yourself, looking for someone else to fill you up. Or you’ll manipulate a situation to compensate for what you lack. You don’t realize you’re playing a game, but you are. […]

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#257- Journey of Attachment: Manipulation Doesn’t Lead to Change

  #257- Journey of Attachment: Manipulation Doesn’t Lead to Change Your relationship isn’t going well. You don’t feel heard or appreciated, but you think if your partner would just try harder to do what you want him/her to do consistently, you’d feel better. Instead, you feel undermined because your feelings are dismissed; clearly you are “imagining […]

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#248- Stealing Energy From Others

 #248- Stealing Energy From Others When I first started coaching, I came across the book “The Ever-Transcending Spirit: The Psychology of Human Relationships, Consciousness, and Development” by Toru Sato. In it he talks about the concept of stealing energy. When you have an energy deficit in yourself, you may try to get it from others by […]

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