#385- Journey of Attachment: The Attachment to Obstacles

#385- Journey of Attachment: The Attachment to Obstacles Obstacles provide fantastic excuses for staying stuck: “He’ll leave his wife when his youngest graduates,” or “She will be ready to commit once she is financially secure.” By sacrificing yourself and putting what you want on hold, do you hope to eventually be rewarded with the relationship

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#325- Journey of Attachment: My Whole Relationship Is On The Phone

#325- Journey of Attachment: My Whole Relationship Is On The Phone Technology has become a crutch for people to hide behind. It’s a haven for Avoidants! Of course technology can be used in a healthy way, but when used to hide, it becomes problematic. Suddenly the rules for engagement are super important: “I can’t call first,”

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#320- Loneliness and Disconnection

#320- Loneliness and Disconnection You don’t have to be alone to feel lonely. Loneliness is a sense of internal isolation which serves as protection. Instead of opening up and sharing your feelings, you retreat because it feels safer. This not only disconnects you from others, but also from yourself. True connection requires vulnerability, which is uncomfortable

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#275- Journey of Attachment: I’m So Amazing, Why Won’t Anyone Love Me?

  #275- Journey of Attachment: I’m So Amazing, Why Won’t Anyone Love Me? You’re a superstar! You’re smart, witty and you’ve heard it from everyone: they say you’re a catch! So why haven’t you met anyone? Your friends don’t get it and neither do you. The bigger question is, who are you presenting yourself to be?

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