#385- Journey of Attachment: The Attachment to Obstacles

#385- Journey of Attachment: The Attachment to Obstacles Obstacles provide fantastic excuses for staying stuck: “He’ll leave his wife when his youngest graduates,” or “She will be ready to commit once she is financially secure.” By sacrificing yourself and putting what you want on hold, do you hope to eventually be rewarded with the relationship

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#375- Journey of Attachment: Liars, Cheaters and Lack of Trust

#375- Journey of Attachment: Liars, Cheaters and Lack of Trust You don’t trust your partner. He/she is lying and cheating… or you’re afraid they are. Maybe you have an ex who cheated on you so you are hyper-aware of certain behavior. Like if you see your partner acting flirty with someone, which sends you into

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#373- Journey of Attachment: Staying Too Long And Making Excuses

#373- Journey of Attachment: Staying Too Long And Making Excuses Your relationship isn’t going well. Perhaps your partner is verbally or emotionally abusive, threatening to leave or causing you harm. But there are good sides to him/her too, which you don’t want to discount, so you focus on that and make excuses for their bad

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#293- Journey of Attachment: Choosing A Life Vs. A Lifestyle

  #293- Journey of Attachment: Choosing A Life Vs. A Lifestyle People often stay in bad relationships because they are afraid of losing their lifestyle—the house, group of friends, money, vacations, etc. It’s not just losing a partner, it’s losing the whole package. The problem is, that fear is often worse than the reality and it’s

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