Why Trying To Avoid Pain Doesn’t Make you Happy

Pain sucks. No one likes it, but those who are securely attached deal with it as part of life while Avoidants go to great lengths in an effort to avoid it. Who are avoidants or those who are anxious avoidants? In the world of insecure attachment, these people are the ones who wanted nothing to

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#365- Journey of Attachment Identity Crisis: Can’t Be Alone or Only Want To Be

#365-¬†Journey of Attachment Identity Crisis: Can’t Be Alone or Only Want To Be¬† Most insecurely attached people have an identity crisis going on that either they are aware of or completely checked out of. Many identify as introverts that are avoidants or anxious avoidants, but really they are isolationists. The clock says 5 and they

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