#340- Are You Doing What You Love? “Are you doing what you love?” is not a simple question, nor is it a magical road without potholes. People complain all the time about being unhappy in their job or relationship, yet do nothing about it. Complaining is easy; action is very uncomfortable. If you don’t believe in
read more »#237- Journey of Attachment: Taking Emotionally Risky Action The people who listen to my podcast are seeking some sort of change in their lives, but most want that change to live in their head. You may believe focusing on others or wanting external change will make a difference, but it doesn’t. Your mind is running
read more »I’m often asked if my coaching style is different from therapy… and if so, how? The short answer is yes, it’s very different. First of all, I do not diagnose and treat mental illness or psychological conditions. That is left to the licensed professionals, which I am not. I view traditional talk therapy as more
read more »Two words that don’t feel good together. Waiting never feels good on its own. Relationship can feel great. When used in combination it looks something like this: -Waiting for our partner to change. -Waiting for our partner to come home. -Waiting for our partner to do something (usually something they were supposed to do) -Waiting for them to
read more »This is the first in a series of posts, because this category is vast. I appreciate anyone sending me his or her experiences too, which I may use in future posts. The “walking wounded” is not a literal interpretation; its a metaphor, because the wounds are not necessarily visible to the naked eye upon meeting
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