Forgiveness is an 11 letter word!
Self-forgiveness is an even longer word and for most of us, it takes us much longer to do. We give our power away daily.
We don’t think we do, but every time we’re disappointed or angry..we have given our power to something outside of us. Whether it is a stranger in a passing car or a job promotion…or a more intimate relationship, whenever we experience those emotions in a situation, where we feel disempowered or have to wait….we’re far from the road.
The road is not really to stop and wait, it is to instead, keep going. When we find we have given our power away, we spend time beating ourselves up.
We get so caught up in the drama of the circumstances, reviewing it over and over in our head…and what conclusion do we draw? Blame.
We blame ourselves and others for what has happened. We think we made a bad decision or that someone else did.
In self-forgiveness it is to remember that we cannot predict how a decision will turn out, we have no control of anyone or circumstances outside of us to bring us exactly what we want, when we want most of the time. So can we go easier on ourselves? Doesn’t it feel better? And when we don’t think of something as a disappointment that encompasses total failure…don’t we keep going in the direction of our dreams?