Doctor husband… check!
Beautiful adopted teenage daughter… check!
Two loving dogs… check!
A perfectly manicured lawn… check!
Dozens of holiday cards and party invites every year… check!
Fulfillment and happiness… NO CHECK
Despite my glossy exterior life, I was lonely, professionally unfulfilled, anxious and either running away from what I believed was the source of my unhappiness, or running toward what I believed would save me. At age 37, I was exhausted.
I had completely abandoned myself to get validation from my husband, which always seemed out of reach. I desperately wanted to be rescued from this life I had created, but the fear of what others thought of me was my compass. Upsetting the apple cart in any way scared me to death.
Funny thing was, I had a passion for human behavior and faithfully followed the self-help literacy world for many years. I even saw a therapist and got my own Master’s Degree in counseling!
And yet, I was stuck. No matter what I read, I couldn’t move past my fears of the unknown, not being in control, and imperfection. Most of all, I couldn’t face my fear of being judged and rejected. Who would I be if I wasn’t living for the approval of others?
When I hit my breaking point I remember thinking, “Ok, I’m willing to lose everything. I can’t do this anymore.”
I had no idea the next three years would be the most life-altering, challenging and magical three years I had ever known.
This is when I found Tracy’s podcast, and after the first episode, I knew it was different from the self-help books, education and therapy I had surrounded myself with in the past. It was action-based, not theory-based, and the focus was on ME changing, which felt empowering.
At the time I was jumping from what I believed to be the source of my pain (my marriage) to what would rescue me (a new relationship). I was ready to do whatever it took to experience a healthy relationship with true emotional intimacy… something I thought only happened easily for other women. After I started coaching with Tracy, I realized I had spent my life actually avoiding intimacy.
This work completely transformed my ability to love and value myself for ME, which affected every aspect of my life. I started pursuing goals I had put off for years due to fear of failure. I am more loving, brave, trusting, accepting of myself and others, and (most importantly) at peace. My relationships are more balanced, and I have a deeper connection to everyone around me.
Now that my life is fuller than I could’ve imagined, there is nothing more I desire than to coach others as they courageously challenge themselves to live a life of authenticity and openness.
That feeling of calm and unconditional well-being are not elusive ideas that only others get to experience. A life of joy and unexpected blessings is available to anyone who allows it.
I know what it’s like to be stuck and afraid of shattering the image others have of you. Change is scary, especially when you can’t see where you block yourself from what you want. Having a coach hold my hand as I took those wobbly steps towards a life of emotional freedom is what enabled my transformation.
If you are ready to let go of what has been holding you back, I would be honored to be your guide. There is so much more available to you, and you deserve it.
I help men and women who struggle with anxiety and perfectionism, plus I specialize in challenges with adoption/parenting and women going through divorce.
Normal coaching plans are for 45 min sessions spanning a 6 month period (26 Sessions)
Laser sessions (these are 15-20 minute sessions meant to focus on one thing during the session)
How To Work With Me
- Schedule a free 15-minute Discovery Session via the contact form below by selecting “Legan.”
- Decide whether or not we’re a good fit
- Make your payment via credit card and schedule your first session!
Schedule a Discovery Session with Legan
What Clients are Saying
“Been there, done that… or have I? When it comes to counselling, therapy, etc there’s not much I haven’t tried… but alas none of it got to the core of my pain or to the core of who I am. After a painful breakup and hitting the infamous “rock bottom”, I found Tracey’s podcast and was ultimately matched with my coach Legan.
When I met Legan last fall I was barely functioning; my anxiety had become debilitating, I was feeling more lost and alone than ever, and was grieving the end of yet another painful relationship. Through Legan’s insight and compassionate guidance my life has changed in ways I didn’t imagine possible. The most amazing thing: I no longer have anxiety. I’ve learned to live in the now… no longer ruminating about what was or what might be. I accept all parts of me… the good, the bad and the ugly. Thank you Legan… I will be forever grateful.”