#375- Journey of Attachment: Liars, Cheaters and Lack of Trust

#375- Journey of Attachment: Liars, Cheaters and Lack of Trust

#375- Journey of Attachment: Liars, Cheaters and Lack of Trust

You don’t trust your partner. He/she is lying and cheating… or you’re afraid they are. Maybe you have an ex who cheated on you so you are hyper-aware of certain behavior. Like if you see your partner acting flirty with someone, which sends you into that crazy, anxious paranoid mode. This reaction, however, is more a reflection of your negative beliefs and how you don’t trust YOURSELF. You don’t trust that you would be able to handle the disappointment of the relationship ending. What if you never recover? What if you just attract another cheater?

Staying in a relationship like this allows you to play the victim while assigning your partner to the role of perpetrator (can you say drama triangle?). You get to blame him/her while taking no responsibility for why you stay… and you may be doing this without realizing it. Being a victim feels strangely secure, but it’s a prison that you choose to be in. If you remain, pain and anxiety will be constant companions. To break the chains of disrespect, distrust, and lack of love for yourself, you have to connect with the buried feelings you are trying to avoid. Because staying in a relationship where there is a lack of trust is less about your partner and more about you. But that means you can do something about it.

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2 thoughts on “#375- Journey of Attachment: Liars, Cheaters and Lack of Trust

  1. Hugh Jass - July 25, 2019 at 6:12 pm

    Guffaws . . . .

    ” . . . . Why is that familiar but not?”

    Runs to check interwebular googling machine: . . . . ah, yes:

    “Sing a song of sixpence, a pocketful of shit,”

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    • Tracy - July 26, 2019 at 8:23 am

      Thank you for your comment…I always enjoy your way of communicating, please keep on sharing. 🙂

      Reply

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